You should “unapologetically fly your freak flag, according to life coach, Jeanne Sullivan Billeci, also known as The Soul Mate Coach.
Billeci advises singletons that being their most authentic self without holding anything back is the “secret sauce” to attracting a partner who supports and elevates them instead of holding them back.
After years of coaching in the corporate world—helping people grow in leadership, marketing and business/personal relationships—certified life coach Jeanne Sullivan Billeci decided to pursue her life passion and become The Soul Mate Coach.
She believes her purpose is to help bring soul mates together, making the world a better place and has penned a book entitled Be the Soul Mate you Want to Attract: Step Into Your Sovereignty and Magnetize a Higher Love, where she offers advice to “accelerate your soul mate attraction journey”.
The life coach turned author commented: “It seems like common sense, but society and social media encourage us to tone ourselves down because we will scare people away if we are completely ourselves.”
“Many clients in Ireland—especially women—are still afraid to show confidence because they will be teased as having notions.”
“I explain that it just means being comfortable with who you are and what you deserve rather than being arrogant or entitled,” says Sullivan Billeci.
“And frankly, what is wrong with having notions about deserving more? Seems like an outdated concept designed to oppress people rather than liberate them.”
Personal dating experience
Many clients were inspired by how she shifted her dating approach over ten years ago.
She says clients were inspired by her mid-life love story and how she turned her marketing skills on herself to attract her husband overnight.
She attracted her future husband literally overnight, despite being called a “confirmed spinster at age 44, 325 pounds with the dreaded strong, intimidating personality”.
“I was often told I am too much and that I should not be so picky, which too often means people think you should settle because you cannot do better.”
In her book, she shares highlights of her six keys to helping clients how to be more successful by:
- Identifying negative relationship patterns and releasing mid-life dating myths and limiting beliefs;
- Understanding their essential needs and owning their boundaries;
- ‘Marketing’ themselves more creatively and authentically online by flying their freak flag;
- Unleashing their powerful alter-ego to gain confidence and boost attractiveness;
- Date more effectively, so the process is “more fun” rather than a chore.
With the holidays approaching, she says that many single professionals feel “more isolated and frustrated” than ever, attracting relationships that feel like a second job instead of a supportive partnership.
On the back of this, Sullivan Billeci will host an all-day workshop online for 50% off.